Although fussiness may not be the most attractive trait, sometimes it’s necessary. When it comes to your love life, it’s best to be as picky as possible, or you could all too easily end up in a miserable relationship that’s impossible to escape – all of it based on that initial misjudgement. So, if you’ve been keeping an open mind and dating anyone that wanders across your path, it might be time to adjust your attitude. Here are a few reasons why you should become a dating snob…
Honesty is the best policy
Do you ever get that deep-down feeling you’re lying to yourself? That you’re only pretending to be happy with someone who isn’t really a good match? Being a dating snob means you always listen to this little niggling voice and become attuned to all its warnings instead of blocking them out. This means you’re honest with yourself and much happier in your dating choices as a result.
Molehills into mountains
It’s all very well to have doubts about a little irritating personality trait at the beginning of a relationship. But if you’re still together in 10 or maybe 20 years’ time, think how much more annoying that trait will be. If you see an element in someone you’re dating that annoys you and you also know they cannot or will not change it, it’s never going to end well. Dating snobs stop a relationship at the very hint of one of these niggling doubts, and therefore avoid many years of potential irritation.
Life is too short to be wasted
Think of all those dates you’ve sat through with people who – let’s face it – were never going to dazzle you. Life is too short to spend dates or even whole relationships on time-wasters. Take action today and start looking for that special someone who’s right for you. Dating sites are a great place to start, as they match your personality directly with other members of the website and put you in contact with those you’re compatible with.
Your happiness matters
Who wants to spend their life being miserable? It’s time to start being selfish and choose someone you’re 100% sure suits you. It’s better to be single and waiting for Mr Right than to be with someone you’re unhappy with. Maintaining happiness is essential to maintaining your health.
There’s nothing like true compatibility
Being in a truly compatible relationship is definitely something worth waiting for. Even if it means rejecting everyone with the slightest flaw and taking many a personality quiz, when you find your match, it will be well worth it. Don’t settle for second best.
Choose dating snobbery. Choose happiness. It’s a simple equation.