Self-Sabotaging Behavior

By Stephanie Cooke http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Stephanie_Cooke

Do you feel as though you need to make changes in your life, but there’s always something holding you back? Just as you think you are getting ahead, something goes wrong and you are right back to square one? Well, that something is more likely to be someone- you! Most of us self sabotage from time to time. You see a vacancy for a job you’d really love, but somehow you don’t get the application in on time. You decide to concentrate on saving money to clear your credit card, and go on a spending spree on things you don’t even need. You are trying to diet but eat a huge bar of chocolate and a packet of donuts. [Read more...]

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Happy Valentine’s Day

flowers and candyNothing is more appropriate for Valentine’s Day than Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s poem, How Do I Love Thee? which she wrote for her husband. It describes unconditional love at its best. It is here in its entirety for your enjoyment from Songs of the Portugese:

XLIII. “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways…”
by Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861)

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, — I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! — and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

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Let’s Put the Heart Back Into Valentine’s Day

heartValentine’s Day is tomorrow. It is a lovely little holiday that’s been around since the Middle Ages or before.  But, in my opinion, it’s another holiday run amuck. A day designed to express love has turned in to another commercial frenzy.

The stores, even the grocery stores, are full of cards, candy, and flowers to give to your child, your spouse, your lover, your friend and – and who else? Casual acquaintances? Mother in law (yep, there’s a card for her there), the boss? The meter reader? Your auto mechanic? The children are expected to come to school with valentines of equal size and value for each child in the class whether they really know them or not so there is nothing even about friendship there.

The ads in the paper and TV commercials are featuring expensive jewelry, especially diamonds, as they try to guilt you into buying them. The lingerie ads and commercials show scantily clad women in a bright red, see through, baby dolls or pieces of sleepwear that can’t be shown on a model because there isn’t enough fabric in them to keep a flea warm (or cover it, either). On one TV program I saw a young man holding a thong made out of a red cord and a tiny patch of lacy fabric. His comment was, “I can’t even fold this up because there’s nothing to fold.” Is this what Valentine’s Day is about?

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Valentine’s Day Celebration

By Sangeeta Dhanmeher http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Sangeeta_Dhanmeher

February 14 is celebrated as Valentine’s Day. It is also called as St. Valentine’s Day. Lovers express their affection with flowers, greeting cards and other romantic gifts on this day. On this day, people send greeting cards called valentines to their sweethearts, friends, and members of their families.

The day is popular in the United States as well as in Britain, Canada, and Australia, and it is also celebrated in other countries, including France and Mexico. It has expanded to expressions of affection among relatives and friends. Many schoolchildren exchange valentines with one another on this day. Youngsters like this day because this is the only day being celebrated in the name of love and romance. [Read more...]

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Self Improvement – It Is All About You

By John Tebar  http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=John_Tebar

Having methods, skills, abilities or natural talents, dreams, aspirations and desires add up to only one thing. It is all about you. No one else only you, you take ownership conscious or not for what you feel, think and do. Self Improvement has nothing to do with others. You are simply in three frames of activity at all times proactive, reactive or neutral. Self Improvement is a voluntary activity.

You are the observer of your own reality. You cause the conditions of your own existence.  We all live on the 3 planes of existence the spiritual or no thing, the intellect or reasoning and the physical or body. We strive to do only one thing whether conscious or not and that is to live in fuller expansion and expression of who we are and carry out some purpose for our lives. To be proactive in your own self improvement you should understand these concepts and laws. [Read more...]

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Self Improvement and The 10 Cow Wife

The 10 cow wife cowAlmost twenty years ago I read an article in Reader’s Digest that has stayed with me over the years, and for someone who can’t remember what she had for breakfast, this is remarkable.

The gist of the story is this. An Ameican man visited a fried of his in India. The friend was preparing to be married and introduced his wife-to-be to his fAmerican friend who observed that the woman was quite ordinary, unremarkable, plain but very pleasant.

He returned for a visit some yeas later and when the wife came to greet him he was astonished. She was beautiful, gracious, friendly and carried herself like a princess. When alone with his friend the American remarked that she couldn’t be the same woman he met on the last trip. “Yes, she is,” the Indian friend responded and told this story: [Read more...]

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Stepping Out of Your Box

By Carolyn Porter http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Carolyn_Porter

Our society is obsessed with security. People spend a magnanimous amount of time and energy building a box around their life, one that makes them feels safe and cozy, believing they are secure in it. Their box may be filled with a spouse, children, family, friends, wealth, career, titles, degrees, material acquisitions, and so on. But are any of those things really secure? Things can change with a blink of the eye through a divorce, job loss, natural disaster, anger, death or a multitude of other possibilities. More than likely you’ve experienced the dynamics of life, the ever-changing status of our journey on this planet. But people keep right on building, and if their box gets trampled they scurry fast to rebuild their perceived security. [Read more...]

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How to Enjoy the Holidays

By Dr. Mona Spiegel

The Danger

Do you enjoy the holidays? Many people get together on Christmas to celebrate the holiday and strengthen family bonds. As the generations sit around the table, enjoying the delicious food, they have the opportunity to revel in their unity as a family regardless of what happens the rest of the year.

Sounds ideal. More often than not, however, when you assemble with your extended family you will recall past hurts or feelings of neglect. Your emotional pain could then easily outweigh your enjoyment of being together again. [Read more...]

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What About Me?

4th birthdayThe other day I told my almost-four-year-old grandson that Friday is Daddy’s birthday and he and I would do some things to surprise his dad. He looked me right in the eye and asked (with some degree of emotion), “What about me.” I told him his birthday was next month but that just didn’t seem to satisfy him. And for the next few days I heard, “What about me” playing around in my head while I tried to come to the right answer.

Yesterday, as we played bowling on the computer together, I got it! Everyone had had a birthday but him. He couldn’t remember his 3rd birthday party and from his view everyone got special recognition except him. Since August he has celebrated birthdays for his sister, mother, me, my best friend, my son’s best friend, and now my son. None for Jack.  No wonder he wanted to know, “What about me.”

So we pulled up a 2007 calendar and talked about days, weeks and months. I showed him all twelve months of the year and we talked about how the year ended in December – after Christmas. I showed him where everyone’s birthday is on the calendar.  Then we pulled up a 2008 calendar and I showed him that he was first. The very first week of 2008 Jack has his birthday. We counted the days – he can count to 20 and so his big day is within counting range. Wow!  He told me what he wanted for his birthday cake and we went online to look at Thomas the Train birthday decorations. He also has some ideas about what he wants to receive as gifts.  All is well. Not only does he have a birthday soon but he is first. He was absolutely delighted.

Isn’t that the big question for most of us? What about me? [Read more...]

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Effective Techniques For Stress Management

By Jeffrey Meier

Learning to manage the trials and tribulations of daily life can be difficult when there are more trials and tribulations sure to follow. Between the strain on a job, managing a family, trying to pay bills, and the hassle of driving to work in rush hour (or the gas needed to drive to work in that rush hour), it can be more than a notion to try to bear it all. Many people are finding that the only way that they can cope with the insurmountable pressures placed upon them is to come up with was to refocus their energy when they have time alone. And most find that by coming up with unique forms of stress management actually help to calm and rejuvenate them for another round of lively activity the next day. [Read more...]

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