The Ultimate Gift – Choosing How You Feel

By Layne Schmidt -

I grew up hearing that moods were something that came from God. I’m not sure how anyone came to that conclusion but that was what was passed down to me. Something, somewhere along the line got interpreted into the idea of a heavy or dark mood was a “gift” that you needed to go through in order to become a better person.

Turns out it was simply an excuse for bad behavior. I was in my mid-twenties before I figured that out. I was going through one of those times where I felt completely ill-equipped to deal with whatever was going on in my life. It had only happened a few times before, but when this kind of depression descended I felt no other desire but to lock myself away from everyone and everything. I did so by shutting the drapes and unplugging the phone. I just allowed my self to disappear for awhile.

I didn’t want people to see me this way. I slept a lot, thought a lot and did a fair bit of feeling sorry for myself. As I looked out of my window at the blizzard moving in – I felt the words “you’re choosing this, you can choose something else” come into my consciousness.

That seemed somewhat ludicrous when I considered what I had accepted as the truth until now. Moods were given, not chosen. They weren’t things that you really had a choice about. But I couldn’t shake the phrase. It just kept going around and around in my head; “you’re choosing this, you can choose something else”.

So, I did the only thing I could think of at the time; I put on a warm layer of clothes and grabbed a shovel out of the breezeway and began shoveling sidewalks. I cleaned up the public pathways and neighbors walkways for blocks and blocks. The snow continued to come and I continued to shovel. Hours later when I finally felt compelled to stop – the depression was gone. I had distracted myself long enough that I was able to choose a different emotion.

I look back at that moment twenty years ago now and recognize the gift my inner being was giving me in saying “you’re choosing this, you can choose something else”. I realized I had a choice in how I wanted to think about what was going on in my life in that moment.

Stuff happens! Sometimes things don’t go as planned. But whatever it is we always have a choice about how we’re going to think about it. Is it a curse or blessing; a problem or an opportunity? You can ask yourself “what’s the upside here?” or “is this situation giving me more clarity on what it is I really DO want?”

What happens when you shift the thought is that you get a glimmer of relief and once that bit of relief shows up you can begin a journey towards “moods” or emotions that feel better in your whole body. I know this seems like a really simple idea – and for some of you there might be a bit of push-back but all I can say is that this concept has greatly improved the quality of my life and by extension the life of anyone who was affected by my moods.

You may not always be able to choose what happens in your life but you can always choose how you’re going to feel about it.

When you get good at choosing better thoughts and feelings you create an energy shift that will dramatically increase the joy level in your life. Does that sound like something appealing to you?

If you want; the next time something makes you sad or angry or depressed or overwhelmed – allow yourself to feel it (don’t just shove it down and pretend it doesn’t exist), feel it and then make a deliberate attempt to feel something a little bit better. Or if that seems impossible; DO something that gets you a little distracted from the moment at hand until you can look at it from a more pragmatic point of view and ask yourself some questions like:

  •  What’s really going on here?
  •  Is there room for another perspective?
  •  Do I need more information?
  •  Could I have misunderstood something or over reacted?
  •  Am I giving someone else power to make me feel something I don’t want to feel?

Learning to see situations from new angles is a life transforming skill. There’s nothing more potent then the knowledge that you can control your thoughts and emotions. You can choose to feel better. It won’t necessarily be an instant change but change at any pace is still change. With practice you get quicker results. Practice is the operative word.

If there are people or places that trigger negative stuff for you – are you willing to look at things differently? Are you willing to assume the responsibility for how you feel and quit allowing others to dictate that for you? If something happens that is less than ideal – take the time to reframe it. Believe the best in everyone even if they don’t give you lots of reason. Learn to see the good in every person and every situation and before long that is all you will see.

This is a gift you can give yourself every single day; Learn to see the LIGHT in everything and everyone. Choose how you’re going to feel and react. You are in full and complete control. Enjoy.

Layne Schmidt is the creator of http://www.RubyShuze.com a website for individuals like you who are interested in understanding what is getting in the way of experiencing what you want. With clear pragmatic articles and exercises; RubyShuze will open you up to a whole new way of thinking that will transform your experiences in regards to Health, Love, Money and most importantly, your Sense of Self. The offerings are practical and simple but the discoveries will be profound. You can take your journey as deep as you wish as the site offers all kinds of additional resources. Rubyshuze offers a Free Monthly Newsletter.

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Ripple Effect

By Betsy McGuire -

I had the chance to watch a pilot for a new TV series the other night. The show is called TOUCH. The premise is that we are all connected in this world. In this series, an 11 year old autistic boy is able to actually see or sense all of these connections and uses numbers to make sense of them. The pilot highlighted about ten people living in different parts of the world and how the actions of one led to a consequence in the life of another. I have to say, I really enjoyed this show and it illustrated something I talk about a lot which is the connection of all people.

Have you ever stopped to think about the effect your mood, words, or actions have on the people around you? Think about this: when you are treated rudely, what is your reaction and what are the consequences of your reaction?

Take this example. Jack’s boss comes into his workspace and criticizes Jack for meeting a deadline too slowly (even though the deadline was met). Jack’s reaction is to internalize this criticism and take it personally. It makes him feel bad and worthless. Feeling worthless makes him angry. Jack lets his anger grow within him throughout the rest of the work day. He gets into his car at the end of the day and hits the road. A driver on the freeway makes a mistake and accidentally cuts in front of Jack. Jack, still grouchy from the encounter with his boss, angrily holds up his middle finger and makes sure the other driver sees it. Next stop, the grocery store to pick up some dinner. When the store clerk greets Jack and smiles, he gets annoyed and snarls back. On to the wife and kids at home. They are thrilled to see Jack and want to share with him what happened to them during the day. Not in the mood, Jack ignores them all and goes about his business.

So what happens next? Well, if the driver, store clerk, and Jack’s family take on his negativity (just as he took on the negativity of his boss) just think about the implications. Each of those people is now headed out into the world to interact with countless others in a negative way and so on and so on and so on.

The next day Jack wakes up refreshed, completely oblivious to the ripples of negativity still going and going throughout the world. These particular ripples didn’t start with Jack (there were reasons the boss was in a critical mood), but they could have ended with him. If he would have been able to take a moment after his boss left and turned the situation around within himself, things would have been much different. With a different attitude, Jack would have shrugged off the driver, smiled back at the cashier, and created a happy, pleasant atmosphere for his family – ending the bad ripple caused by his boss. All of us can create positive ripples in the world regardless of how we’re treated. It’s up to us to decide how we will show up in this world. We are not at the mercy of other people’s negativity.

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Choose Your Mood – How to Gain Control Over the Most Important Tool For Creating the Life You Choose

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Your mood, in a significant way, is your life. Your predominant mood establishes the tone for your life. If your mood is predominantly happy, content, or an otherwise positive mood, chances are you’ll say you’re having a good life. And if your mood is predominantly negative, well…

What mood are you in right now? How did you come to be in this mood? Do you ever wonder where your moods come from? Do you experience being able to make a choice about them, or do they just seem to happen to you?

The good news is, research in positive psychology and related fields is proving that you can take control of your mood, learn to be more optimistic, even happier, and thus create a better life for yourself.

There are three basic ways moods happen: without our knowing; when something happens, be it something good, or something bad; and because we chose to do something about a mood, and deliberately changed it.

When you wake up in the morning, what mood do you find yourself in? Do you tend to notice the mood, or is your first awareness a thought like, “Oh no, is it time to get up already?” Or “Uh oh, I forgot to….” And now those will get you in a mood, won’t they?

When you start your day with “Oh no,” or “Uh oh,” the sour mood that creates can have a powerful negative impact on your day, and on your overall well-being. If you don’t intervene, you’ve just set the stage for many other things to go wrong, feel wrong, and create stress throughout your day.

Likewise, if you start your day with gratitude for the sunrise, or appreciation that you woke up before your alarm, or excitement about what’s on the agenda for the day and the possibilities, that mood will also likely impact your entire day, and your well-being, this time for the positive.

So how can you take charge of your moods, and become a predominantly happier person?

Catch Yourself in the Act

Many of us have habits of thinking that put us in a bad mood. Self-criticism, worrying, regretting – all of these are thought loops we run, like an old CD we forgot to take out of the stereo, without realizing we can choose something else. The next time you find yourself doing one of these negative bad mood thought habits, STOP. Don’t beat yourself up for it (that would just be more of the same). Simply remove that old CD, and put in a new one. You could literally turn on some music and listen to that rather than thinking. You might try telling yourself you’re not going to waste another minute on that, and then think about something else. Anything would be progress from continuing to indulge those old negative thought habits.

Focus on Positive Thoughts

You can create new, positive thought habits, put some good new CDs on your player, by creating a discipline for yourself of thinking positive thoughts. For example, start a gratitude journal, and focus at least once a day on things you’re grateful for. Get in the habit of acknowledging and appreciating people. Let yourself vision your own positive future. Any time you spend in positive thinking is time well spent!

One simple way to refocus your thinking is to ask yourself (and others, by the way) questions that help focus on the positive, such as: *What am I grateful for? *What am I proud of? *What am I happy about? *Who loves me? *Who do I love? *How have I contributed?

Change Your Language

Your words, both spoke out loud and spoken to yourself in your thoughts, have great power to influence your mood. Phrases like “I can’t…” as in, “I can’t afford that” will bring you down. Replace that with, “I am preparing to…” Or even “I choose to…” and notice the difference you feel.

Every time you describe something from your past as if it were happening now (even if the last time it happened was just a moment ago) you are bringing yourself down. There is great power in leaving the past behind, beginning with your language, and being optimistic about the possibility that the future may be different. The simple phrase, “I used to…” or “Up until now I…” can help you to change your mood, and your behavior, to a whole new possibility.

Don’t Just Stand There, DO Something!

One of the most powerful and simple ways to change your mood is to take action. A simple shift in your posture (look up, stand tall, chin up) will lift your mood. Moving your body, i.e. exercise or dancing, will elevate your mood, even if it’s not strenuous. Play upbeat music, and watch what happens to your mood. Or, sing a song yourself!

Take It On and Feel the Difference

You can retrain your predominant mood by making some or all of these suggestions standard daily practices. Start your day by reciting or writing what you’re grateful for. Before you start working, and throughout the day, stand up, look up, even jump up, and pick up your mood. Acknowledge and appreciate others at every opportunity. Play music in the background as you work, or clean, or cook. Exercise every day. Breath deeply and enjoy the moment. One of my favorites – hold my hands under the water and enjoy how it feels each time I wash up in the bathroom – quick, easy, uplifting.

Play with it, find your favorites, and lift your mood. It’s up to you to take charge of the quality of your life.

Dinyah Rein has been coaching people to succeed at their personal and life goals for more than 25 years. If you’re ready to move powerfully forward toward your own goals,sign up for her weekly newsletter at http://coachdinyah.com

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“Why Self Acceptance is So Powerful” by Barbra White: A Review

By Irene Conlan -

As a therapist, something I heard often, regardless of why the person had come to see me and   especially from  women, was “I’m not good enough” and the question that often followed was “What’s the matter with me?”

After years of hearing from religious teachers, parents, school, and perhaps siblings and friends about their faults, shortcomings and weaknesses, many are convinced that they simply don’t “measure up.”  And the media compounds the negative self image by setting unrealistic standards for beauty and behavior. We are taught to conform – to be like everyone else. Further, religion created such a separation between us and God that there was little comfort in turning to the Divine for guidance and we were taught that emotions were not to be trusted. We were left to cry, “mea culpa” without really knowing what we were guilty of.

We have paid the price with physical and emotional illness and a feeling of hopelessness because we were cut off from God and saw no way to bridge the gap.

Barbra White addresses these issues head on in her remarkable book, Why Self Acceptance is So Powerful.

She talks about how we can deal with the M.U.D. that keeps us from knowing who we truly are and shows how we can deal with it in order to come to self acceptance. The MUD, our negative emotions, racing mind, limited self-beliefs about beliefs and physical pain is what keeps us “living small” and feeling “not good enough.” She gives valuable tips on how to deal with these emotions until we are free of their limiting and harmful effect on our life.

White teaches that It is working through the emotions, feeling them fully, and accepting them and you just as they and you are that brings about the healing and improves not only your life but the life of those around you.

Who should read this book?

  • Anyone on a spiritual path
  • Anyone who has ever felt “less than” or “not good enough”
  • Anyone with a chronic illness that hasn’t responded to treatment
  • Anyone who has been taught that they are “sinful,” born “bad” or any other teachings that they are not “o.k.”
  • Anyone who has been taught that emotions are not important and need to be ignored, denied, or minimized.
  • Anyone who is courageous enough to take an “in your face” look at who they really are and who God is.
  • Anyone who is living “small” and wants to break out of small thinking to think and live “large.”

A warning. If you have a closed mind and a closed heart, this book will be disturbing.

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Emotions, the Mind-Body Connection

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“A feeling sparked in your mind will translate as a peptide being released somewhere (in your body). Peptides regulate every aspect of your body, from whether you’re going to digest your food properly to whether you’re going to destroy a tumor cell.” – Dr. Candace Pert, internationally recognized pharmacologist, prolific speaker, and author, from her book Molecules of Emotion: the Scientific Basis behind Mind Body Medicine.

As the quote above describes, the human brain produces biochemicals that are received by every cell throughout the body. The mind-the thinking part of the brain-interprets the process as “emotions.” Dr. Candace Pert’s research began with her study of the way our brains, minds, and bodies respond to the drug morphine. When patients are in pain, they will experience not just their physical pain, but their emotional state or how they are “feeling.” The emotional state of the patient will probably be anxious, irritable, maybe hopeless, and possibly even angry. However, once morphine is administered to the patient and the cells begin to receive the molecules of the chemical through the bloodstream, the pain subsides and the patient begins to feel, among other things, euphoria-a medically recognized state of emotionally intense pleasure and happiness.

Importantly, Dr. Pert’s research discovered that molecules of a biochemical substance altered the patient’s emotional state. Dr. Pert went on to discover that the human brain produces opiate‐like molecules similar to morphine, called endorphins, which are the body’s own natural mood enhancers and/or painkillers. As her research developed further, she discovered that every single human emotion corresponds to a biochemical substance that is produced by the brain and spread throughout every single cell in the body.

According to Dr. Pert’s research, the chemical seeds of happiness and unhappiness are actually produced within each of us. Yes, the production of the chemical substances our body interprets as “happiness” can be triggered on or off by an external event or words spoken, but we can also control the internal production of happiness regardless of the circumstances. We can literally choose happiness and produce the feeling in spite of what is going on around us.So by this we can safely establish that a thing or an event is not happiness. Happiness is not a new home or new car. Happiness is not a new relationship. There are many people that are miserable with all of the same things or events that someone else is miserable without.

Check in tomorrow to see why people are waiting for happiness and what we can do to change it!

Janie Behr is a qualified life coach specializing in helping people find their purpose, achieve their goals, and explore all the possibilities that life has to offer. She is available for private individual coaching, group coaching and public speaking engagements. She runs frequent teleseminars dedicated to helping people find and live their most positive lives! For more information please visit http://www.janiebehr.com.

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Improve Your Well-Being – How Your Attitude to Health Can Help

By William Newart -

What is Health?

How do you define health? Is it a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being? Is it merely the absence of disease or infirmity? Or is health a resource for everyday life, rather than the objective of living; a positive concept, emphasizing social and personal resources as well as physical capabilities?

Good health is harder to define than bad health (which can be equated with the presence of disease), because it must convey a concept more positive than mere absence of disease, and there is a variable area between health and disease. Health is clearly a complex, multidimensional concept. Health is, ultimately, poorly defined and difficult to measure, despite impressive efforts by epidemiologists, vital statisticians, social scientists and political economists. Each individual’s health is shaped by many factors, including medical care, social circumstances, and behavioral choices.

Health Care

While it is true to say that health care is the prevention, treatment and management of illness, and the preservation of mental and physical well-being, through the services offered by the medical, nursing and allied health professions, health-related behavior is influenced by our own values, which are determined by upbringing, by example, by experience, by the company one keeps, by the persuasive power of advertising (often a force of behavior that can harm health), and by effective health education. Healthy individuals are able to mobilize all their physical, mental, and spiritual resources to improve their chances of survival, to live happy and fulfilling lives, and to be of benefit to their defendants and society.

Achieving health, and remaining healthy, is an active process. Natural health is based on prevention, and on keeping our bodies and minds in good shape. Health lies in balancing these aspects within the body through a regimen consisting of diet, exercise, and regulation of the emotions. The last of these is too often ignored when health advice is dispensed, but can have a pronounced effect on physical well-being.

Diet

Every day, or so it seems, new research shows that some aspect of lifestyle – physical activity, diet, alcohol consumption, and so on – affects health and longevity. Physical fitness is good bodily health, and is the result of regular exercise, proper diet and nutrition, and proper rest for physical recovery. The field of nutrition also studies foods and dietary supplements that improve performance, promote health, and cure or prevent disease, such as fibrous foods to reduce the risk of colon cancer, or supplements with vitamin C to strengthen teeth and gums and to improve the immune system. When exercising, it becomes even more important to have a good diet to ensure that the body has the correct ratio of macro nutrients whilst providing ample micro nutrients; this is to aid the body in the recovery process following strenuous exercise.

If you’re trying to lose weight by “dieting”, don’t call it a diet, first of all – successful dieters don’t call what they do a “diet”. A healthy diet and regular physical activity are both important for maintaining a healthy weight. Even literate, well-educated people sometimes have misguided views about what makes or keeps them healthy, often believing that regular daily exercise, regular bowel movements, or a specific dietary regime will alone suffice to preserve their good health. Despite the ever-changing, ever-conflicting opinions of the medical experts as to what is good for us, one aspect of what we eat and drink has remained constantly agreed by all: a balanced diet.

A balanced diet comprises a mixture of the main varieties of nutriments (protein, carbohydrates, fats, minerals, and vitamins). Proper nutrition is just as, if not more, important to health as exercise. If you’re concerned about being overweight, you don’t need to add the extra stress of “dieting”. No “low-fat this” or “low-carb that”; just healthful eating of smaller portions, with weight loss being a satisfying side effect. Improve health by eating real food in moderation. (For many reasons, not everyone has easy access to or incentives to eat a balanced diet. Nevertheless, those who eat a well-balanced diet are healthier than those who do not.)

Exercise

Physical exercise is considered important for maintaining physical fitness and overall health (including healthy weight), building and maintaining healthy bones, muscles and joints, promoting physiological well-being, reducing surgical risks, and strengthening the immune system. Aerobic exercises, such as walking, running and swimming, focus on increasing cardiovascular endurance and muscle density. Anaerobic exercises, such as weight training or sprinting, increase muscle mass and strength. Proper rest and recovery are also as important to health as exercise, otherwise the body exists in a permanently injured state and will not improve or adapt adequately to the exercise. The above two factors can be compromised by psychological compulsions (eating disorders, such as exercise bulimia, anorexia, and other bulimias), misinformation, a lack of organization, or a lack of motivation.

Ask your doctor or physical therapist what exercises are best for you. Your doctor and/or physical therapist can recommend specific types of exercise, depending on your particular situation. You can use exercises to keep strong and limber, improve cardiovascular fitness, extend your joints’ range of motion, and reduce your weight. You should never be too busy to exercise. There’s always a way to squeeze in a little exercise, no matter where you are. Eliminate one or maybe even two items from your busy schedule to free up time to fit in some exercise and some “YOU” time. Finding an exercise partner is a common workout strategy.

Emotions

You may have heard about the benefits of diet and exercise ad nauseam, but may be unaware of the effect that your emotions can have on your physical well-being and, indeed, your longevity. Like physical health, mental health is important at every stage of life. Mental health is how we think, feel, and act in order to face life’s situations. Prolonged psychological stress may have a negative impact on health, such as weakening the immune system.

Children are particularly vulnerable. Caring for and protecting a child’s mental health is a major part of helping that child to grow into a normal adult, accepted into society. Mental health problems are not just a passing phase. Children are at greater risk for developing mental health problems when certain factors occur in their lives or environments. Mental health problems include depression, bipolar disorder (manic-depressive illness), attention-deficit / hyperactivity disorder, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, schizophrenia and conduct disorder. Do your best to provide a safe and loving home and community for your child, as well as nutritious meals, regular health check-ups, immunisations and exercise. Many children experience mental health problems that are real and painful, and they can be severe. Mental health problems affect at least one in every five young people at any given time. Tragically, an estimated two-thirds of all young people with mental health problems are not getting the help they need. Mental health problems can lead to school failure, alcohol or other drug abuse, family discord, violence, or even suicide. A variety of signs may point to a possible mental health problem in a child or teenager. Talk to your doctor, a school counselor, or other mental health professionals who are trained to assess whether your child has a mental health problem.

Control your emotions. If a driver overtakes you on the wrong side, or pulls out of a side road in front of you, don’t seethe with rage and honk your horn; You’re hurting no one but yourself by raising your blood pressure. Anger has been linked to heart disease, and research has suggested that hardening of the arteries occurs faster in people who score highly in hostility and anger tests. Stay calm in such situations, and feel proud of yourself for doing so. Take comfort in the knowledge that such aggressive drivers only increase their own blood pressure. Your passengers will be more impressed with your “cool” than with your irascibility.

If you are in a constant rush, feeling that every second of your life counts, just slow down a little. Yes, every second does count, but consider the concept of quality of life. Compare how you feel when you’re in a hurry with how you feel when you’re not. Which feels better? Rushing everywhere increases your stress level. The body tries to overcome stress by making certain physiological adjustments. Some time after you slow down, the physiological adjustments and the stress symptoms revert to normal. If you don’t ever slow down, the physiological adjustments and the stress symptoms persist. It is this persistence of the body’s response that matters. You may develop physical, physiological or psychological problems, and may not be able to lead a normal life. Many cases of stress are somehow connected with money, or rather the lack of it. Such people struggle to make ends meet or to acquire more material possessions. This brings us to our final discussion: attitude.

Attitude

It is always pleasant to enjoy the fruits of our labors, of course. Sometimes, however, it seems that whatever we do, it’s just not enough to be able to afford that new car or that foreign holiday. So, what do we usually do then? We work harder, longer; we increase the stress on our minds and bodies; we spend less time with our families and friends; we become more irascible and less likeable people. If you find yourself in this situation, just stop for a moment, and consider: Is it all worth it? What is the purpose of life? Surely it is to be happy. You’ll probably be happier if you adopt the philosophy that true quality of life is not to be found in material things. If you convince yourself that you want less, you’ll need less. If you need less, you’ll cope with life more easily, and the happier, and therefore healthier, you’ll be. Buddha called this “enlightenment”. Enjoy a “good-health attitude”. Focus on your abilities instead of disabilities. Be satisfied with what you have, rather than be dissatisfied about what you don’t have and probably never will have.

If you simply cannot cope with a healthy diet, exercise and emotional control, but genuinely prefer to eat junk food, be permanently drunk, be under constant stress, and be disliked by others, then enjoy your life while it lasts, but understand that the trade-off is that it will probably not last long. If you accept this willingly, you’ll be happy. There is some merit in the philosophy that it is better to live a short, happy life than a long, miserable one.

Conclusion

Personal or individual health is largely subjective. For most individuals and for many cultures, however, health is a philosophical and subjective concept, associated with contentment, and often taken for granted when all is going well. The evidence that behavioral factors such as diet, physical activity, smoking and stress influence health is overwhelming. Thus, health is maintained and improved not only through the advancement and application of health science, but also through the efforts and intelligent lifestyle choices of the individual and society. Perhaps the best thing you can do for your health is to keep a positive attitude. Optimal health can be defined as a balance of physical, emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual health. Maintain a positive attitude!

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April 9, 2011 – Emotions

Feelings are much like waves, we can’t stop them from coming but we can choose which one to surf.

~ Jonatan Mårtensson

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Release Stress and Anxiety – Learn to Breathe Fully to Live Fully!

By Donna Packard -

Do you know that most people are breathing barely enough to be alive? Most people breathe in a shallow manner, just bringing the breath barely into the chest. We have been conditioned to hold in our stomachs, and to wear tight clothing, inhibiting our ability to breathe fully. Have you watched a new baby breathing? The baby’s belly rises with the inhale and falls gently with the exhale. It’s kind of like watching the ocean waves rising and falling in a natural rhythm. There is no pause between the inhale and the exhale. This is our natural breathing rhythm.

Many of us have shut down our breathing, and no longer breathe in this natural rhythm due to stressors, repressed emotions, fears, anxiety, etc. that we have experienced throughout our lifetimes. Think of what happens when you get anxious in traffic, for instance. Chances are you are holding your breath.

Our culture has taught us to repress many of our emotions and feelings. If someone is crying, what do we do? We try to get them to stop, where, if we simply allowed them this space to feel, they would move through the feelings, or ‘storm’, clearing them from their emotional and physical bodies. It’s like the ocean that has storms and clears to peaceful sea. Unfortunately, when we repress feelings, they are held in the body’s memory and we begin to breathe in a more shallow way to hold the feelings in.

Additionally, we carry a lot of stress in our bodies. If we are breathing fully, we cannot hold stress in the body. Yet, most of us carry stressors around for many years! For instance, let’s say you have an argument with a loved one or a boss or friend. Your stress level goes way up, and, ideally, it would be best to find a way to relax and bring it back down as soon as possible. Instead, you carry it with you.You think about it later in the day and your stress level rises again. You may think about it the next day and the same thing happens, or months later. Sometimes years later, you are still carrying that residual tension around with you. And, chances are, you are not breathing as fully because of it. This is where we get into trouble, for carrying this stress around with us leads to dis-ease. Most diseases are related to stress in one form or another. I have heard that cancer cannot live in cells that are oxygenated and there are studies that show that heart patients have not had reoccurence of their problems once they learned to breathe fully.

It’s also fascinating how when we learn to breathe fully, not only do we learn ways to relax and relieve stress, we begin to live more fully. It is as if we get back in touch with what is in our hearts, our True Selves, and, often, we also reconnect with our Source, in whatever form and way we each view that. In working with hundreds of people over the years, teaching them how to repattern their breathing, I have witnessed many many people finding a place of inner serenity, of peace. Oftentimes, they were embraced by the consciousness of pure Love.

So, I ask you, in this moment, to take a breath in and out. Does your breathing feel restricted? Ideally, a full breath fills your belly like it is filling a balloon, then rises up through your chest and then releases freely. It may be likened to the ocean waves, where the wave rises in the belly, flows into the shore (the chest) and then flows back out, as the exhale. And, then flows in again, with no pause between the inhale and exhale, in a perfect circle of breathing, flowing in and out freely.

It may be helpful to imagine you are filling a jug with your breath. You fill all the way to the bottom when inhaling, the bottom being the top of your pubic bone, and then filling the jug with the air all the way to the top, which you may imagine as the throat area or even to the top of your head.

I invite you, in this moment, to practice breathing fully and freely.

Exercises:

1. Lie down and place one hand on your abdomen and one hand on your chest. Breathe in your normal fashion. Which hand rises as you inhale? Since many people are shallow breathers, breathing only into the chest. You may find that the hand on the chest raises up with the inhale. Practice bringing the inhale deep into your belly and fill your belly with the air, like you are filling a balloon. You may want to place a small pillow on your abdomen to see if it is rising as you inhale. (One woman I worked with would have her small dog lie on her belly to watch to see if it she was raising him up and down as the breath moved into her belly:-) ) This type of breathing may take practice and, at first, may seem like a lot of work. Yet, in the end, you will be happy you learned to breathe deeply. Getting the breath into your belly is the first step.

2. Once you are able to breathe deeply into your belly, as in step 1. above, next you want to practice bringing the breath into your belly, as above, and then continue to bring it from there up through your chest and heart, and then release it. Breathe in, pull up and release. Do not force the exhale, let it fall like a sigh. Then breathe in again, with no pause between the exhale and inhale and breathe again deeply into your belly. Practice for 5 minutes to start.

3. Begin to notice throughout the day whether you are breathing or not. You may find various times you are holding your breath or not breathing fully. Remind yourself from time to time to take a deep breath! The more fully you breathe, the more fully alive you will be.

When you begin breathing more fully, at first, you may experience different sensations in your body which may not be used to getting as much oxygen. You may feeling tingling in your hands, or face, or feet, or other places. You may feel uncomfortable feelings in various parts of your body at first. You may feel feelings! Just feel what you feel and keep breathing through it! Know it is safe to breathe! The breath carries what gives you life.

Breathe Fully and Live Fully!

Many blessings and remember to Breathe Peace in each moment, Donna Packard, M.Ed., “The Inspirer” http://www.BreathePeace.com

Copyright 2009 Donna Packard. All rights reserved. Please feel free to pass this lesson along, or reprint it, and invite/encourage others to be a part of the Breathe Peace movement. Just be sure to include my name as the author and the website contact information as listed above.

I invite you, in this moment, to Breathe Peace, Donna L. Packard, M.Ed., “The Inspirer”
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E-mail: info@breathepeace.com

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Happiness Is A Choice – 3 Keys To Choosing Happiness

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Did you know that happiness is a choice? I know it doesn’t always seem like it but it is. Just think about it. How can someone who has everything in life be miserable and yet someone that hardly has anything can be amazingly happy? It comes down to what they choose. Happiness is a choice that you must make. Here are 3 keys to help you choose happiness.

1. Don’t be led by emotions.

Emotions are very powerful but can be dangerous if you don’t control them. If you are led by your emotions it will be difficult to continually be happy. You see, emotions change with every little thing that happens if you let them. Happiness is a choice you have to make regardless of what outside circumstances are. The better control you have of your emotions the more you will be able to choose to be happy.

2. Set yourself up to be happy.

Most people actually set themselves up to be unhappy. They set the rules to be happy so high that it’s practically impossible to be happy. Are the rules that you have set to be happy to hard? For instance, are one of your rules for happiness that you feel happy when you successful? If so, being successful all the time is hard to do. The odds are that you will be unhappy more then you will be happy if this is your rule. Make you rules easier and you will be happier.

3. Choose your thoughts wisely.

Happiness is a choice and therefore starts in your mind. If you think on things that are unhappy you will be unhappy. Begin the process of being happy by changing what you think on. You have a choice of what you are going to dwell on so make the choice to think about happy things.

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2 Ways to Increase Your Productivity and Well Being by a Factor of Four Now

working woman2 (2)By Dave C Hawkins -

Parkinson’s Law:

“Parkinson’s law states that a job expands to fill the time available to accomplish the task.”

If you have two weeks to finish a 2000 word report, (providing all the information is in your head) what is the argument that having two days to finish the report will produce an inferior result?

There is no rational answer to having an extended period of time to finish the report. But crucially, having two weeks to finish it is less stressful, and this is the first message to zap our minds – on a basic level, its fear. And that’s why most people would opt for two weeks. (If we were rational creatures surely we would opt for two days and take it easy for the next 12 days…).

Parkinson’s Law is a perfect example of stage two in my system which I detail at end of the book.

So, Parkinson’s Law dictates that you would produce a better result after 2 days, rather than 14, because the information is fresher in your mind. If we can overcome instinctive decisions and understand we can ‘get 12 days off’, the benefits are clearly seen.

Eustress:

The word ‘distress’ is one that we are all familiar. So what is eustress? It’s the opposite of distress – its ‘good stress’. Is there such a thing?

Believe it or not, stress is good for us. It builds up our internal bar for appreciation, it forces growth, and it gives us a sense of achievement. In a nutshell, stress is imperative to happiness.

“Without the downs, you can’t truly appreciate the ups”

I always thought that some stress was good for us, and then I was fortunate enough to come across this term. To make it easy to understand I’ve written some real-world examples of eustress and distress below:

Eustress — running a marathon and beating your personal record.

Distress- having to perform a in a theatre production you don’t know the lines to

Eustress- stepping up to take a penalty kick in the World Cup final of football

Distress-…and missing

What distinguishes the two is how you feel after the stressful activity. In eustress you feel relief and happiness afterward. In distress you are still suffering.

Does this make sense?

Action Steps…

Can you see how Parkinson’s law would make you more effective and productive?

Can you see how an understanding of eustress would make you more effective and healthier?

Do you have a greater understand of what stress is now?

Do you think that in the future you can now identify whether stress is eustress or distress, and act accordingly?

Do you agree that by understanding these concepts you can increase your productivity NOW?

This is a chapter from my free 130 page eBook on emotional intelligence. You can get the free eBook, 17 Reasons Why You Need Emotional Intelligence at http://www.emotionali.com/

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