Lighten Up! – Stop Taking Yourself So Seriously

By Barbara Berezowski -

Learn to laugh at yourself and enjoy life all the more. Everyone is human, we all make mistakes. Don’t be so serious that you can’t forgive yourself. Give yourself permission to laugh. In fact, give yourself permission to laugh at yourself and you will enjoy life all the more. Everyone is human, we all make mistakes. Don’t be so serious that you can’t forgive yourself the silly mistakes you may make along the way.

Like it or not, life can be very short. We should consciously make the decision to enjoy the ride and make the best of everyday. We are all born with an inner energy. This energy source starts off with a positive charge. It is the actions by the person or how a person chooses to deal with various matters that determines if this energy source remains in a positive state or if they allow negativity into the equation.

There is always good and bad and it is what we decide to do and make of it that determines who we are. Recognize the fact that we are in control of how we will be affected by the surrounding events. Choose to take things in stride and deal with the issues that come our way in an effective manner. The goal is to properly deal with day-to-day issues as to not have detrimental outcomes.

Stress is not a good thing to deal with. It has far-reaching damaging affects on the body. Lighten up and have fun. Don’t be so serious that you forget to laugh. They say a smile is better than medicine and it is so true. Think of it this way… do things get better or does “it” go away faster if you fret? I think not! Why bother fretting over something that has happened that you can’t change or beating yourself up over something that is beyond your control? That’s just negative, useless energy and it will slowly devour you. Don’t allow that to happen. Always remember that life is a sweet and wonderful thing and be inspired by that. We make of it what we can, just keep on keepin’ on.

So the next time you take the wrong turn or flub your lines or strike out, get over it quick. It happens, you are far better off if you choose to deal with it right away. Put a big red bow on those negative feelings and kick it to the curb! Move on and continue on your path to greatness!

Barbara Berezowski is an Olympian, Hall of Fame Inductee and Motivational Speaker. Barbara’s goal is “To Inspire Those Who Desire” as she delivers her meaningful messages of encouragement and motivation with the intgrity and credibility of a champion. Please visit http://www.bberezowski.com for further information on this sports celebrity and how to book Barbara to speak at your next event.

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5 Survival Tactics for When Everything Goes Wrong

By Sandra Martini -

You know the type of week.

* You’ve worked hard and are gearing up to launch a new product when a vendor calls and says that he can’t get the new website up on deadline which is “okay” because the graphic artist’s computer crashed and your product picture isn’t ready anyway. They’ll get back to you.

* Taxes are due for those who got and, in some previous insanity, you agreed to do them for friends and family. But you still need information and the tax deadline looms.

* Your hubby needs reading glasses but you can’t find the credit card which will give you the big discount. It’s gotta be around somewhere.

* Your sister wants to borrow your AAA card – it must be with the missing credit card.

* Your business phone line stops working and the telephone company insists the problem is in the home and they can’t get to you for a week.

* It hasn’t rained for weeks and yet the dog is covered in mud and lying on the couch.

* Your largest client calls on a Friday afternoon and requests the impossible. This was preceded by your smallest client calling and demanding that you drop everything as her every need is *urgent*.

* The bathroom toilet stops working and then starts leaking and your plumber is on vacation.

What do you do when it all goes wrong?

1. Laugh.

Laugh hard and laugh often. Laugh like there’s no tomorrow – given the above, there may not be. Seriously though. . .laughter will put you in a much better frame of mind to deal with life’s interruptions without losing your sanity.

2. Breathe.

If laughter isn’t possible, and sometimes it just isn’t, then focus on your breathing. Breathe in and out, in and out as deeply as possible until your pulse stops racing or you let go of the throat that somehow found its way into your grasp.

3. Regroup.

When the walls are caving in around you, take five minutes and figure out what you can do to keep at least one thing moving forward. Follow-up on the email that may land you a new client. Submit your article to the various article submission sites. Pay a couple of bills. Do one thing, anything so that you can cross something off your *list*. It’s probably best if this something doesn’t involve interaction with others!

4. Give thanks.

“What? Give thanks? Are you insane?” I can hear the grumbling from here. Do it anyway! Grab a piece of paper and make a list of everything that you are thankful for – chances are, you have it better than millions of others.

Here’s a quick list of things that I know I’m grateful for: my health, family and friends, my pets, my business and my clients, sunrises and sunsets, flowers, chocolate ice cream, the sound of the ocean and a crisp New England fall day.

5. Get out.

Get out of the house and out of the office. Whether you choose to go for a walk, have lunch with friends, go window shopping (leave credit cards at home) or browse the shelves at your local library, get out and enjoy yourself for a bit. You’ll return in a much refreshed frame of mind and ready to tackle whatever life throws your way.

Let’s be real. Sometimes problems are just problems and not “opportunities”. Sometimes lemons make bad lemonade. And not all clouds have a silver lining. When everything goes wrong, try one (or all) of the above techniques, accept it and move on knowing that things will get better!

Online Business Manager & Entrepreneur, Sandra Martini coaches small business owners to more efficiently manage their businesses while increasing profits and having fun. Sandra’s coaching programs are available via teleconferencing, emails and telephone calls. For more information or to sign-up for ‘Effective Entrepreneur’, visit http://www.online-biz-coach.com today. Want to grow your business? Sign up for the FREE e-course “How to Write a Dynamic Marketing Plan” by sending a blank email to smartini-187175@autocontactor.com today.

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Laugh – The Healing Power of Laughter

laughter2By Wambui Bahati -

“If you can laugh at it, you can live with it.”

- Erma Bombeck

Norman Cousins is often described as the man who laughed himself back to health. According to his autobiography, Norman Cousins-a prominent political journalist, author, professor, and world peace advocate-was diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis, a painful spine condition. He put himself on large doses of vitamin C and humor-which included watching a lot of Marks Brothers’ movies. He says, “I made the joyous discovery that ten minutes of genuine belly laughter had an anesthetic effect and would give me at least two hours of pain free sleep. When the pain-killing effect of the laughter wore off, we would switch on the motion picture projector again, and not infrequently, it would lead to another pain-free interval.”

We all know how good it feels to laugh. Have you ever “laughed ’til it hurts?” Well, perhaps that’s a sign that those laughing muscles are not used often enough. Whenever possible and appropriate, laugh. Don’t laugh at the expense of someone else’s feelings. A healthy laugh requires a healthy attitude. A hearty laugh should embrace those around you, not alienate them.

I love to laugh. Whenever I’m feeling down, I just start smiling. There is no way you can feel bad, sad or depressed if you force yourself to smile and laugh. Try it! Yeah, right now. Doesn’t that feel great? Drs. Gael Crystal and Patrick Flanagan, authors of the article entitled Laughter-Still the Best Medicine (1995), say, “Laughter is a form of internal jogging that exercises the body and stimulates the release of beneficial brain neurotransmitters and hormones. Positive outlook and laughter is actually good for our health!”

Try to see the humor in day to day situations you might find yourself in. Don’t be overly sensitive to what someone says or to another person’s point of view.

“So, how many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb? Only one-but it will take a long, long time, and the light bulb has got to really want to change“. – Unknown

Wambui Bahati “Miss Inspiration” is a professional speaker, entertainer and lifestyle coach. She is the author of the important, inspiring and highly acclaimed book: “You Don’t Know Crazy – My Life Before, During, After, Above and Beyond Mental Illness.” http://www.wambui-bahati.com/

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Succeed and Improve Your Health – Live, Laugh, Love and Stay Healthy

laughterBy Dr. Raymond Comeau -

Tony Robbins defined success as, “Conducting your life in such a way that it gives you tons of pleasure and very little pain.” By that definition, success would be, beyond the shadow of a doubt, the best possible way to restore, promote, protect and enjoy the highest possible level of physical and mental health.

Stress has been the subject of more than 20,000 scientific studies and according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, stress accounts for two-thirds of family doctor visits and half the deaths to Americans under the age of 65.

So, if stress is such a health hazard, how can it best be avoided? Over three decades of clinical work have shown me that the best possible way of avoiding the effects of stress is to be passionately involved in something that we love to do.

A mind actively involved in pleasant and creative work has no place or time for stress. That is the reason that so many highly successful individuals are still hard at work when it’s way past retirement age. These people have understood that life is about growing and evolving.

So long as a man is happily involved in a self-growth process, there are very few chances that disease will strike. Pleasant work is never health threatening. The mind and the body require exercise. The adage that says, “What you don’t use, you loose” is true. It could be said that the body is more likely to rust-out than wear-out.

Our physiology (body chemistry) is directly affected, either advantageously or adversely, by the mood that we are in. This fact has been confirmed by studying people affected with Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder.) Patients with that condition may be diabetic under one personality and normal while under another one. Eye color changes along with extreme variations in blood pressure have also been know to occur as the personality changes from one to another.

Another classic that shows the powerful influence of a person’s mood on the healing process is Norman Cousin’s story. Mr. Cousin, a prominent political journalist, author, professor, and world peace advocate, was diagnosed with a form of arthritis then called Marie-Strumpell’s disease (ankylosing spondylitis.) and was told that he had little chance of surviving the condition.

Faced with that very gloomy prognostic, Mr. Cousin decided to leave the hospital and move to a beautiful hotel suite where some of his comedian friends could come and entertain him. To his amazement, he discovered that spending quality time with upbeat people had a very powerful therapeutic effect.

In a matter of months, he completely recovered from the illness and spent the remaining of his life-giving lecture advocating the healing power of laughter. His story was published in a book called, The Anatomy of an Illness and a movie based on the book was made.

Every expert agrees that our moods and feelings have a profound effect of our health and wellbeing. Many forms of arthritis, some cancer and other debilitating diseases are also known to be highly influenced by stress and other emotional disorders. The states of our mind and body are most intimately related. What affects one, affects the other.

The prescription for health is simple. Live your life in a fashion that it provides tons of pleasure and very little pain. It’s the secret for wellbeing and it’s also the description and definition of success.

Dr. Raymond Comeau aka Shamou is the Author of ShamouBlog and Owner Administrator of Personal Development for Personal Success Forums

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