The Country Music Awards

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By Irene Conlan -

Last night I watched the Country Music Awards. I have never been a great fan of country music although I have loved a few songs along the way. I have trouble with a whiny sound and with the somebody-done-me-wrong songs so I don’t often listen.  But it was an interesting awards ceremony and I’m glad I watched.

The clothes ranged from jeans to beautifully beaded jackets and designer gowns, from the tacky to the elegant. There was, however, much more elegant than tacky.

They had elaborate multiple stages and props that would rival anything produced in   Hollywood. There was a lot of glitter and glamor, befitting any awards show. Reba McIntyre, the emcee, kept things moving and injected her own brand of humor along the way.

But none of those things were what I found to be so impressive.

I was impressed that they thanked God and got applause for it instead of bored or annoyed looks.

I was impressed with how almost every winner thanked the troops for protecting us and called attention to to the sacrifices our troops and their families make on a daily basis. One the groups nominated for Entertainer of the Year was in Iraq entertaining the troops and could not attend.

I was impressed that they had an award for the entertainer who

I was impressed with how many of them talked about freedom and how much they love this country. There were no diatribes against the government – the present or the past. There were no political rants or negative statements.

I was impressed with how much love of family was demonstrated. They thanked their Mamas and Daddys and didn’t apologize or act embarrassed.

I was impressed that they honored a duo for their charitable work  – Montgomery and Gentry were honored with the 9th annual “ACADEMY OF COUNTRY MUSIC / The Home Depot Humanitarian Award, which salutes an artist or group in the country music industry who is committed to serving others, has a generosity of spirit and a dedication to helping build the dreams of those in need”. I had a hard time finding any mention of it in today’s reports.

There were no angry statements, no ridicule of others, and no angst. Not that I saw or heard, anyway.

There was no smut, no cursing – just some poor grammar and they can certainly be forgiven for that.

Las Vegas may never be the same.

I’m sure some of the commentators will say that it was boring or  will have something negative to say. It was not boring.  There was action, great props, Taylor Swift soaring across the top of the arena in a cage, and Brad Paisley ending up in a pool after singing about water. He accepted his award dripping wet.

It was good, clean fun.

I guess my rambling is about how refreshing it is to see a group of superstars at an awards ceremony behaving in a way that I could feel comfortable watching with my grandsons and who love

For me, it was a nice change from the murder, mayhem and negativity.

Thank God for a remote with an Off button.

Let’s talk about education and creativity as a platform for self improvement

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A  part of self improvement is continuing to learn. The first video is a talk about the education of our children and whether they are learning to be creative.  It made me wonder about my own education – and yours – and if we learned what our creative talents are and if we learned  how we can use them to the optimum.

I finished high school in the ’50s – a long time ago and in a place far, far away. I played a saxophone in the school band but, other than that I had no introduction to the arts and no quality instruction in writing and appreciating literature. In fact I would say I had a substandard education. It wasn’t until I was in college that I learned to write “better than a 5th grader” and learned to love art, and literature. I always loved an appreciated music because we had an outstanding band and learned to play and appreciate the classical genre.

Because I was in college in Washington, D.C. I had access  to the National Gallery of Art, the Library of Congress (which was then open to students) and to the Smithsonian.  Being there gave me a great love for the arts, but did not give me the opportunity to develop my own creativity.  What about you?

Have you been challenged artistically?  Have you tapped in to your creativity? It is never too late.

Fortunately I h ad a professor in my undergraduate program who challenged me to learn to write. She said, “Nurses are the worst writers in the world. Most nurses can’t pass my class.” There it was. I had to show her that I, even though a nurse, could write as well as anyone in the class. I couldn’t. Not in the beginning anyway. I worked harder in that class than in all my other classes put together. I got  a top grade but, more importantly I developed a love for writing and a love for literature that has served me well over the years.

But it is with this blog that I’m learning to be more creative. If I can do it so can you.

My son, in his late 30s is painting with acrylics and oils and doing some lovely work. He is painting with my five year old grandson,  Jack – and Jack has no inhibitions with paint. He lets it flow and some of his work is quite lovely. He is also learning to enjoy music of all kinds and my son is encouraging him to learn drums, piano – or anything else musical. He probably won’t get it in school. The arts have given way to sports when the budget cuts have reduced the curriculum in the public schools. Football is judged to be more important than the arts. Granted, our children need programs that make them exercise, but they also need to develop their creativity and their appreciation for those things beautiful.

The great news is that we have classes in all the branches of art available to us through our college system and the Internet can give you access to almost anything you wish to learn. You are NEVER to old to learn both the theory and application. Go to an art appreciation class – or take lesson in painting with water colors, acrylics, oils or pastels. Or take a music appreciation course – even take some piano lessons or learn to play guitar. Whatever appeals to you – go for it. Learn to appreciate dance – and if you’re not a dancer, perhaps you can learn.

You can be creative in any area of your life – work, play, romance. So get your creative juices flowing. It’s self improvement at its best.

Struggle and Self Improvement

By Irene Conlan -

The philosopher Frederich Nietzsche stated, “What does not kills us makes us stronger.” I’m not sure I totally agree with that statement but in some instances it does seem to be true. We’ve probably all heard the story about someone helping the butterfly out of the cocoon only to find it was too weak to survive – it needed the struggle of emerging from the cocoon to give it the strength to survive and fly. Sometimes the student who has to work the hardest to achieve is the one who thrives and excels (and sometimes it is not).

As I watched Andrew Johnston’s performance on Britain’s Got Talent II on YouTube, this phrase came to mind. There are several interviews with the boy and/or his parents on YouTube. He talked about being bullied because the other kids said he sounded like a girl and they didn’t like his music. Simon asked him what he did when they bullied him and he responded that he just kept singing.  But\he stood on the stage, and sang through his fear – of Simon Cowell and the experience itself. He is only thirteen and that’s a very vulnerable age. He blew the audience away.

In a later interview on a talk show his mother told the host that because of him and his appearance on the talent show, being in the choic had become “uber cool.”  He has a phenomenal voice – an extraordinary talent. Did the bullying make him stronger, bring about such remarkable improvement that he could do this? Take a look, listen and decide for yourself:

Meditation and Self Improvement

By Irene Conlan -

Some years ago when I was attending a fundamentalist church, I was delighted to see that the Sunday sermon was going to be about meditation. It was. But what was taught was that if you quiet your mind, empty it of all thought, Satan and his demons would enter and, taking over, would never leave. I was appalled. And, even though I had attended that chuch for almost twenty years, I never went back. There were other problems for me but this was the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back.

For almost anything to do with self improvement – stress relief, self esteem, self confidence, improving creativity – whatever it is, my first recommendation is always meditation. Why? Because you find the key to all self improvement by going within. [Read more...]

Another Bit About Music – the MP3 Player and Self Improvement

MP3 playerYesterday I talked about music and how it can send you into a spiral of depression or lift you up to highter levels. But there are some wonderful side benefits of using a player such as an ipod or mp3 that I just learned and want to share.

Sometimes we need to get away – to have time to regroup, rethink, feel what we feel, and find a space for healing. We need to have some space to assess our self improvement goals and our progress. But now is not a time to get away to another place. When I got my music downloaded I popped the earbuds in my ears and continued working while I listened. As I got comfortable with it I realized that the music was more beautiful than I had heard on any other kind of player. All extraneous sound was shut out and I could hear the music without the distraction of noise. I felt as if I were in a special place surrounded by, steeped in, encompassed by the beautiful sounds and melodies. I relaxed, smiled, stopped working for a while and just basked in the sounds – music as it should be heard. [Read more...]

Music and Self Improvement

MP3 playerYesterday I bought an MP3 player – a cute little red one with 4 Gigabytes of memory. I bought it because I’m going whale watching and I wanted something to listen to on the trip. This was a big step for me, because I had decided I just couldn’t master one more electronic step up. I remember when we had big vinyl records, then 331/3, then tapes, then cassette tapes, eight tracks, CDs and now these little cuties. My son has one hanging out of his ears most of the time and it looked quite complex. These days, the simpler the better. But I took that leap and now I’m the maybe not-so-proud-owner of a new gadget to figure out.

After a few hours of reading the directions over and over, installing software on my computer, and struggling to get my computer and my player to take with each other, I finally got some of my own music on it. I put the ear plugs in, turned it on and listened to some Enya. Oh, that was lovely. So I found some Andrea Boccelli, and then some Motzart and a little bit lf Lang Lang. The sound is wonderful – better than surround sound – and the music that I chose was happy and uplifting. Why didn’t I get this sooner? [Read more...]