By John Sammers -
I receive daily quotes from the Law of Attraction website because it really helps to set up my day. A very recent quote was so important I thought I would drive home the point because we just CANNOT get the things we want and be in a joyful place if there is any resistance to the desire. This is ANY resistance, including doubt!
The most frequent question people ask in this work is “Why Aren’t I Getting What I Want?”, which is what most of us want to know. Before we go further, here is the quote in question. ‘It doesn’t matter what anybody else is doing with their vibration, it only matters what you are doing. You cannot desire something-and notice that it isn’t coming-without offering two contradictory vibrations that won’t let it come.’ — Abraham
Now, that seems simple enough, but the ‘notice it isn’t coming’ bit is the bit we all struggle with. It isn’t that hard to notice you haven’t got any love or money when you haven’t got any love or money! Again, I find money quite easy to work on using the Law of Attraction because there is no emotional attachment. You merely stop thinking I can’t afford this and can’t afford that. You adjust your lifestyle sure, but you don’t think why or because – you just do it and live it. If the kids need new trainers, you just say you’ll be getting them soon. If there aren’t the funds for steak you cook a chili con carne, and that’s what you do for no other reason in your mind apart from because you choose to! Children require love more than anything. We usually eat far more than we need and so on. If it’s bills, talk to the people you owe to and tell them the money will be there soon, AND BELIEVE IT, because the moment you do, you’ve opened the door to it.
This is the training friends. There will be moments when you will say, ‘I’m not going out because I choose to stay in’, and the truth may be because you don’t have the disposable funds. As you think it there is a little twinge in your heart because you have told a sort of lie. The twinge is your resistance. Leave it, and the next time you’re feeling good, work on that resistance. Tell yourself, “I choose to stay in because I choose to stay in. If it was something I really wanted to do, I would find the money because I always do. There is plenty of money around. I always get by. I’ve been in situations before and everything worked out fine”, and so on. This is the work. Tell yourself over and over again; a belief is just a thought we keep thinking.
So, to conclude, the work is this. To allow the Law of Attraction, which is always turned on, to work for you – you must ‘assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled’ (in the words of Neville Goddard) and do everything you can to change the ‘I haven’t got the money for’ to ‘don’t worry, the money will soon be here for’ – and believe it. Setting up your lifestyle so it supports this work is where your energy could be directed – not in the worry of why it isn’t. Making time for visualization, meditation, exercises that result in the taking in of a lot of oxygen (deep breathing, running, aerobics) and lots of play are the secrets to allowing the Law of Attraction to work on your desires.
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John Sammers has been working with people as a therapist and a coach for many years. Some of the work he does helps people rid themselves of painful memories and some of the work is to help people develop themselves. John’s history is in education. After 10 years or so of teaching he retrained as a life coach using NLP and the Law of Attraction. He then continued his professional development to become a certified Master Practitioner of NLP & Hypnotherapy. He has since gone on to study and achieve practitioner level of Emotional Freedom Technique and, apart from some therapy work, his main area is the training of others in communication and the language of the unconscious mind. John’s personal interests are in writing and recording music, Latin dance and Tai Chi
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