By Amanda Paul -

There will always come a time in each of our lives in which we will have to make a tough decision. From deciding if your current relationship is right for you to whether or not you should go for that big promotion. Tough decisions can come from all aspects of our life from personal to professional. This is why today I am going to give you some smart tips to use the next time you are faced with a tough decision.

1. Set a deadline for yourself – It is really important that you set a deadline for yourself about when you want to have a final decision made. Without a deadline we allow ourselves to procrastinate or maybe even miss an opportunity. Setting a deadline may be scary but it is a necessary part of the decision making process.

2. Trust yourself – I firmly believe that each of is the expert of our life. Who knows you better that you? By taking charge and seeing yourself as an expert of your choices can give you the confidence you need to make difficult life decisions. Often we allow our bad choices of the past to diminish our ability to make the right choice. I have found that often when I have made a bad choice it has been because I haven’t trusted myself and instead just went along with something or trusted someone else to make the decision for me and this generally ended with negative results.

3. Evaluate the cost and gain with the decision – With each choice that we face in life there is a cost and something that we gain. It is important to determine if the gain is worth the cost. Maybe the higher paycheck of a new position is not worth the added stress and responsibility or maybe the new home is appealing but isn’t worth the higher mortgage payment and tighter budget. If the cost is not worth the gain then you may not want to move forward with making a change.

4. Ask for advice – I put this step further down the list for a reason. Often we will seek out the advice of others to avoid making the difficult decision ourselves. When asking a person for advice make sure it is someone that you trust and that will take advice giving seriously. It is important that you don’t just make a decision based on their advice but take it under consideration. Talking with someone about the decision may give you an alternative perspective and they may be able to give you different points to evaluate before deciding.

5. Make a pros and cons list – If after using the above tips you still find yourself torn you might try making a pros and cons list. Take a piece of paper divide it into two halves and write the positives of making the decision and the negatives. If you really want to hash out the options in this way you may also make a list about the pros and cons of not making the decision. After your lists are complete sit down and consider all options. Hopefully this may help to resolve any left over fears or insecurities about your decision.

6. Decide – This is the most important step. If we never finally make a choice then we could end up with a decision being made for us or nothing at all. I can ensure that if you never finally make the decision you will spend your days wishing that you had. I believe it is better to make a choice and give it a try then to sit and allow life to happen to you. Make a choice and take ownership for that choice. If you have followed these steps then you can be assured that your decision was well thought out and you can move forward confidently knowing that you have made a well informed decision.

These aren’t the only things you can do to help make those tough decisions easier, but they’re a good starting point. Try one or all of them the next time a tough decision rears it’s head in your life and press forward toward your goals.

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