How to Survive a Cross Country Move By Yourself
Moving can be a nightmare. Sorting through all your stuff, packing up boxes, cleaning your old place, organizing your new place, and settling yourself in a new city can be exhausting, frustrating, and overwhelming — especially when you’re moving across the country. It’s a daunting experience, and there are ways to survive a cross country move by yourself.
Anyone who has moved knows the huge effort that is typically involved. If you are moving a long distance by yourself, you will need to make a big commitment to stay on task and work toward completing your goal.
The job doesn’t end when the U-Haul is packed and loaded — making a new space feel like home and finding your community in a brand new city are just as important as organizing your boxes. Luckily, with a few tips, you can manage the stress of moving and be set up for success when you arrive at your new home.
Stick to a Strict and Organized Schedule
One of the most important things you can do to ease the stress of your move is to develop a schedule and stick to it. Things always take longer than you think they will. You always seem to have more stuff than you imagined, and you will probably forget something you need the first time around. What you thought was a few carloads can quickly turn into you wondering how you turned into such a packrat.
The first step is to develop a comprehensive moving checklist to get organized and keep yourself on track. Things like planning a garage sale, scheduling a cleaner, hiring movers, having a plan for moving on a budget, and making special arrangements for fragile items can all be worked on ahead of time so you’re not scrambling the day before you need to move.
In order to be productive, you have to work on one thing at a time and slowly but surely check things off your list. Being organized is the key here. Otherwise, the task will feel too herculean to be possible. Create your schedule well ahead of time and give yourself strict dates for completing each task. If you chip away at it day by day, you will be a lot happier when moving day finally rolls around.
Make Your New Space Feel Like Home
When you’re planning to move across the country by yourself, you are probably focused on logistics, driving time, packing boxes, and cleaning out your old space. But it’s essential to not overlook the importance of making your new space feel like home.
You want to feel comfortable and your new space and to feel like it’s yours so you don’t get too homesick or sad after your move. One of the many lessons that can be learned from moving is that home can be created anywhere with a little bit of solid effort.
Don’t let your boxes sit unpacked in stark rooms for weeks. Although it might feel like you just packed them up and like you just don’t have the energy to open them up and unpack, you need to. The sooner you get your new space set up and can see your belongings, the sooner it will feel like home.
It is worth the investment to put time into transforming your new space into a place that feels like home instead of a foreign and unwelcoming place in a strange city. Quick home improvement projects like putting on a fresh coat of paint, adding some fun knobs on your kitchen cabinets or hanging up some custom wall art and personal photos can make a huge difference. A few personalized touches can go a long way in making you feel comfortable.
Get Involved in Your New City
Once you have moved across the country and settled into your new home, the next step is to get involved in your new city and find community. Since you have moved by yourself, meeting people and making friends is of the utmost importance.
A great place to start is to use alternative forms of transportation to get around when you go out to shop, eat, have fun, or travel. Taking the bus or subway offers social opportunities that driving alone in your car does not.
Find meet-up groups online and manifest meeting like-minded people, try volunteering for a cause you believe in, get in touch with friends, go out and explore new areas, or consider taking a class. By getting out there and saying “yes” to new opportunities, you will be on the fast track to having a community you love in your new city.
Moving can be scary, especially when you’re going across the country by yourself. But it doesn’t have to be a negative experience. By being organized and sticking to a moving schedule, putting effort into making your new space feel like home, and prioritizing getting involved and meeting people, you will likely be happy and thrive in your new home.